Reviews
“Has been brilliant, good Therapist, Knew how to guide me, helped me when I was feeling low, also to see life differently. Guided me through different situations”.
- SD,London
“Went very well excellent, really enjoyed talking to you, Thank you very much”.
— BB, West London
22 years of abusive marriage, break-up, regaining
self-confidence.
I decided to try therapy after an abusive marriage ended. I wanted to understand what I was doing wrong, and how to change it. I also wanted to come out of the marriage but didn’t know how to. I wanted to feel more confident and in control of my life and to be more optimistic about my future.
During therapy with Beautiful, we talked about my patterns of behaviour, the way I relate to my partners, the way I think and feel and what do I tell myself in critical situations.
We also explored my childhood and how it influenced the way I am now. The first outcome of the therapy was that I stopped blaming myself for being in a very bad and abusive relationship, for over 22 years.
After 12 sessions it started to make sense, why I behaved the way I did. This discovery has given me an enormous feeling of relief. I felt physically lighter, as if a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders. Even friends have noticed the change and commented that I seem more relaxed, happier and that I have also lost weight, something that I promised myself to do.
I am slowly starting to feel in control of my destiny and confident in my journey of purpose. Learning how to set boundaries, which was what I believe has been the problem with others taking advantage of me.
Once the relationship issues have been sorted and put aside, we started to talk about me, what I wanted and about my future goals.
In the beginning it seemed a daunting task as every time I tried to think about my future, I ended up feeling depressed, anxious and stuck. I felt as if all the good things were behind me and there was nothing to look forward too.
Again, we talked about my childhood. Again, this discovery has given me a huge feeling of relief.
After 12 weeks of therapy, I feel stronger and more in control, I recognise this is just the beginning. I trust and respect myself more. I also feel happier and optimistic about my future. I know there will be ups and downs, but I feel that I can handle them. I feel blessed to have had a wonderful Therapist like Beautiful.
I enjoyed working with Beautiful. She was genuinely concerned about my issues and committed to making a difference. Sometimes I would come to the session feeling heavy and blank, as if I had nothing to say. She was able to ask questions that led to the interesting interpretations and as a consequence I felt better; I felt motivated and inspired. She helped me look at my childhood and my life differently, by asking questions I have not thought off asking myself, naming the obvious but somehow forgotten. By pointing out patterns that were destructive and helping me to understand where they came from and how to change them. It was thoroughly insightful and satisfying experience”.
— Hannah D, North London
“I lost my Husband in January 2019. I didn’t think I needed Therapy but was told to give it a go. My first Therapist sat in silence waiting for me to talk. That wasn’t what I needed. I needed to speak to someone as you would a friend. I needed reassurance that this was normal and all the feelings and emotions I was experiencing were ok.
Then I met Beautiful. She made me feel so relaxed by asking a lot of questions, which encouraged me to speak about things I didn’t know I needed to talk about. She made me think of things I hadn’t thought off, which left me positive and refreshed coming out of my sessions.
She enabled me to find the tools to deal with my issue which was grief. I always wish I had more time with Beautiful, as she helped me make sense of all the confusion and madness, that I will always be truly grateful for.
Thank you Beautiful, you are my hero xx ”.
— Donna, London